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三、老师在课堂上分享了一篇关于如何建立良好人际关系的短文，Sally受益匪浅。请阅读短文，根据短文内容和你的思考回答问题。
Do you ever find it hard to talk to new people? You're not alone. Many students feel shy when they meet someone for the first time. The good news is that social skills are like muscles(肌肉)—the more you use them, the stronger they become. Here are some useful tips to help you connect with others.
Listen more than you talk. People love to feel heard. When someone is speaking, give them your full attention. Put away your phone, look them in the eye, and nod to show you understand. Ask questions about what they just said. This shows you really care about their stories.
Find common ground. Do you both like basketball? Do you both enjoy playing video games or reading comic books? Shared interests are the bridge to new friendships. Try saying, “I like that too! What's your favourite ...” This opens the door to more conversations.
Be yourself. You might think you need to act cool or pretend(假装）to be interested in things just to fit in. But real friendship is built on honesty(诚实). People will like you more when you are real. Your true personality is what makes you special.
Small acts of kindness matter. Hold the door for someone. Share your snacks. These little things show others you are friendly and caring. Kindness always comes back to you.
Don't give up too quickly. Maybe your first try doesn't work out. That's fine. Not everyone will become your friend, and that's normal（正常的）. Keep trying, stay positive, and the right people will come into your life.
1. What should you do when someone is speaking to you according to the passage? List at least two.
2. Why is it important to find common ground according to the passage?
3. 提升题 Do you think it's easy or hard to talk to new people? Why or why not?
Do you ever find it hard to talk to new people? You're not alone. Many students feel shy when they meet someone for the first time. The good news is that social skills are like muscles(肌肉)—the more you use them, the stronger they become. Here are some useful tips to help you connect with others.
Listen more than you talk. People love to feel heard. When someone is speaking, give them your full attention. Put away your phone, look them in the eye, and nod to show you understand. Ask questions about what they just said. This shows you really care about their stories.
Find common ground. Do you both like basketball? Do you both enjoy playing video games or reading comic books? Shared interests are the bridge to new friendships. Try saying, “I like that too! What's your favourite ...” This opens the door to more conversations.
Be yourself. You might think you need to act cool or pretend(假装）to be interested in things just to fit in. But real friendship is built on honesty(诚实). People will like you more when you are real. Your true personality is what makes you special.
Small acts of kindness matter. Hold the door for someone. Share your snacks. These little things show others you are friendly and caring. Kindness always comes back to you.
Don't give up too quickly. Maybe your first try doesn't work out. That's fine. Not everyone will become your friend, and that's normal（正常的）. Keep trying, stay positive, and the right people will come into your life.
1. What should you do when someone is speaking to you according to the passage? List at least two.
2. Why is it important to find common ground according to the passage?
3. 提升题 Do you think it's easy or hard to talk to new people? Why or why not?
答案
1. I should give them my full attention, put away my phone, look them in the eye, and nod to show I understand.
2. It's important to find common ground because shared interests are the bridge to new friendships.
3. I think it's hard to talk to new people. When I meet someone for the first time, I always feel a little nervous. I don't know how to start a conversation. / For me, it's easy to talk to new people. I'm outgoing and I enjoy making new friends. I think every new friend brings me something new to learn.
2. It's important to find common ground because shared interests are the bridge to new friendships.
3. I think it's hard to talk to new people. When I meet someone for the first time, I always feel a little nervous. I don't know how to start a conversation. / For me, it's easy to talk to new people. I'm outgoing and I enjoy making new friends. I think every new friend brings me something new to learn.
解析
【分析】
本题为短文阅读理解题，需先通读全文把握各段落核心内容。第1题询问他人说话时的做法，定位到第二段“多听少说”的相关描述；第2题询问找共同点的重要性，定位到第三段结尾句；第3题是开放题，需结合自身情况，围绕与陌生人交流的难易说明理由，符合短文建立良好人际关系的主题即可。
【解析】
1. 从短文第二段“Listen more than you talk”部分，提取他人说话时应做的行为，选取至少两项（如给予对方全部注意力、放下手机等）；
2. 从短文第三段最后一句“Shared interests are the bridge to new friendships”，直接得出找共同点的重要原因；
3. 结合自身性格或经历，说明与陌生人交流的难易及对应理由，需合理通顺，符合短文传递的社交理念。
【答案】
1. I should give them my full attention and put away my phone.
2. It's important to find common ground because shared interests are the bridge to new friendships.
3. I think it's hard to talk to new people. When I meet someone for the first time, I always feel a little nervous. I don't know how to start a conversation.
【知识点】
阅读理解（细节理解）、开放型表达
【点评】
本题考查学生对短文细节信息的提取能力和结合自身的语言表达能力，前两题为基础细节题，难度较低，第三题开放题需结合实际，整体难度适中，符合初中英语阅读理解的考查要求。
【难度系数】
0.6
本题为短文阅读理解题，需先通读全文把握各段落核心内容。第1题询问他人说话时的做法，定位到第二段“多听少说”的相关描述；第2题询问找共同点的重要性，定位到第三段结尾句；第3题是开放题，需结合自身情况，围绕与陌生人交流的难易说明理由，符合短文建立良好人际关系的主题即可。
【解析】
1. 从短文第二段“Listen more than you talk”部分，提取他人说话时应做的行为，选取至少两项（如给予对方全部注意力、放下手机等）；
2. 从短文第三段最后一句“Shared interests are the bridge to new friendships”，直接得出找共同点的重要原因；
3. 结合自身性格或经历，说明与陌生人交流的难易及对应理由，需合理通顺，符合短文传递的社交理念。
【答案】
1. I should give them my full attention and put away my phone.
2. It's important to find common ground because shared interests are the bridge to new friendships.
3. I think it's hard to talk to new people. When I meet someone for the first time, I always feel a little nervous. I don't know how to start a conversation.
【知识点】
阅读理解（细节理解）、开放型表达
【点评】
本题考查学生对短文细节信息的提取能力和结合自身的语言表达能力，前两题为基础细节题，难度较低，第三题开放题需结合实际，整体难度适中，符合初中英语阅读理解的考查要求。
【难度系数】
0.6
