四、阅读下面短文，在空白处填入1个适当的单词或括号内单词的正确形式。
主题群:社会服务与人际沟通
子主题:人际交往
语篇类型:说明文
难度:★★
School is a place where you learn to get on well with people, but this is not always easy. What can you do if you just 1. (like) one of your classmates?
If you discover you have problems 2. getting on with your classmates or friends, the most important thing to learn is tolerance(宽容). Tolerance is the ability to 3. (realize) and respect the differences in others. We cannot change other people, so it is important to learn to live happily with them.
Getting to know someone may help you understand why they do things differently. Something different does not exactly mean that it is bad. Tolerance doesn't require us to accept the opinions of others 4. (complete). Tolerance teaches us 5. (keep) an open mind.
There is 6. old saying, "Treat others how you want to be treated." If you tolerate something, it does not mean that you have to like it. Tolerance just 7. (mean) that you should respect the differences in others.
Tolerance is necessary at school. Sometimes other people may 8. (hurt) you by accident. Don't be mad. Just forgive them. What's more, 9. you can help others with pleasure, everybody will like to be with you.
It is important to practise tolerance, because tolerance will make it much 10. (easy) to get on well with others.

1. dislike 2. in 3. realize 4. completely 5. to keep 6. an 7. means 8. hurt 9. if 10. easier

【分析】
本题为语篇型语法填空，围绕人际交往中的宽容展开，需结合语境、固定搭配、语法规则等完成填空。解题思路：先通读全文理解主旨，再逐个分析空格：1. 根据语境判断词义；2. 结合固定搭配确定介词/非谓语；3. 依据词性变化规则转换形式；4. 按语法结构（如不定式、情态动词后接原形等）确定单词形式；5. 结合冠词用法、从句引导词等完成填空。
【解析】
1. 句意：如果你只是不喜欢你的一个同学，怎么办？根据语境，此处表示“不喜欢”，故填dislike；
2. 固定搭配have problems in doing sth（做某事有困难），故填in；
3. 不定式结构the ability to do sth（做某事的能力），to后接动词原形，故填realize；
4. 此处修饰动词accept，需用副词，complete的副词形式为completely，故填completely；
5. 固定搭配teach sb to do sth（教某人做某事），故填to keep；
6. 表示“一句古老的谚语”，old以元音音素开头，用不定冠词an，故填an；
7. 主语Tolerance为不可数名词，一般现在时谓语用第三人称单数形式，故填means；
8. 情态动词may后接动词原形，故填hurt；
9. 此处引导条件状语从句，意为“如果”，故填if；
10. much修饰形容词比较级，easy的比较级为easier，故填easier。
【答案】
1. dislike 2. in 3. realize 4. completely 5. to keep 6. an 7. means 8. hurt 9. if 10. easier
【知识点】
固定搭配、词性转换、冠词用法
【点评】
本题考查基础语法知识与词汇运用，围绕人际交往主题，难度适中，需结合语境和语法规则解题，是典型的语篇型语法填空题型。
【难度系数】
0.7

五、阅读理解。
主题群:社会服务与人际沟通 子主题:人际交往 语篇类型:说明文 难度:★★
“They'll understand when they're older. ” Hearing this, as a parent, you may feel better. But the fact is that even when kids become adults, it doesn't mean they'll agree with your decisions.
Recently, I have had lots of conversations with my 19-year-old daughter about the decisions I made in her childhood. She says she disagrees with some of them and that some have even caused harm to her. That hurts. I think I must have failed as a parent.
It turns out that my daughter's questioning is very normal. It happens to almost every teenager when they are in their late teens.
“In their late teens, teenagers start to find out who they are and what they stand for(代表),” says Mary Fleming, a college professor. “The search for identity(身份) is not always smooth.” The first task for teenagers is to dismantle the old life structure and to build a new one in its place. In other words, parents created that old life structure of childhood, so they are often at the heart of that dismantling process.
Hearing critical words is hard. But if your teenager comes to you wanting to talk about it, pay attention to him or her. For both of you, it's the beginning of understanding each other. And as teenagers grow up, they will realize they can't live their lives over again, and neither can their parents. They will understand that their parents did the best they could with what they knew at the time.
()1. Which of the following is true according to the first paragraph?
A. Kids may disagree with their parents when they grow up.
B. Adults should let kids make their own decisions.
C. Kids need to talk with their parents more often.
D. Parents often make right decisions for their kids.
()2. How does the writer feel when hearing her daughter's words at first?
A. Confident. B. Surprised. C. Comfortable. D. Sad.
()3. What does the underlined word “dismantle” in Paragraph 4 probably mean?
A. To learn something. B. To break something.
C. To organize something. D. To forget something.
()4. What does the last paragraph mainly talk about?
A. Why it's difficult to hear critical words.
B. How to deal with teenagers' critical words.
C. Why teenagers should talk with their parents.
D. How to let teenagers understand their parents.

1. A 2. D 3. B 4. B

【分析】本题为说明文阅读理解，需根据各题目要求定位原文对应内容，结合细节查找、词义推断、主旨概括等方法解题：第1题需定位第一段确认正确表述；第2题定位作者听到女儿话语后的情绪；第3题结合上下文猜测划线词含义；第4题概括最后一段的核心内容。
【解析】1. 定位第一段最后一句“even when kids become adults, it doesn't mean they'll agree with your decisions”，可知A选项“孩子长大后可能不同意父母的决定”与原文一致；B、C、D选项第一段未提及，排除。2. 定位第二段“Some have even caused harm to her. That hurts.”，可知作者听到女儿的话后感到难过，选D。3. 第四段提到“dismantle the old life structure and to build a new one in its place”，即拆除旧结构并建立新结构，故“dismantle”意为“break（打破、拆除）”，选B。4. 最后一段围绕“当青少年和父母沟通时要重视，这是相互理解的开始，最终青少年会理解父母”展开，核心是如何应对青少年的批评话语，选B。
【答案】1.A 2.D 3.B 4.B
【知识点】阅读理解细节理解、词义猜测、主旨大意
【点评】本文围绕亲子沟通主题展开，题目涵盖阅读理解常见题型，需学生具备原文定位、词义推断及段落主旨概括能力，难度适中。
【难度系数】0.7