Ⅴ. (2025·威海中考改编)信息还原(有一项多余)
生活中我们难免与亲友产生分歧,比如选择游戏或餐厅。我们应该学会倾听、保持礼貌、聚焦事实、寻找共同点,这样才能让沟通更有效、关系更牢固。
Talk to people you disagree with
Everyone sometimes has disagreements with friends or family members. For example, you might not agree about what game to play, which restaurant makes the best pizza. 1. Disagreements are uncomfortable. There are some steps you can take to make the conversation meaningful. Here is how.
See their attitudes(态度)
Even if you disagree with someone, you can still listen to what they say. Let them know that you're paying attention to them by listening carefully with interest. Another way to show that you're listening is by asking questions or repeating what they said. 2.
Use polite language
When someone has an opinion you don't agree with, don't pay too much attention to it. 3. ______ Instead, focus on speaking calmly(沉着地). For example, you may begin with "I feel" or "I see this in another way".
Stick to(坚持) the facts
If you have a strong opinion, it's better to stick to the facts instead of feelings. 4. Then relax your shoulders and speak in a calm voice. If you are stopped by some person, you can remind the person that it's your turn to speak. Then give him another chance to speak later.
Find common ground
It's hard to change one's mind. 5. You may also get a better understanding of each other's opinion. In the end, it's worth the effort because healthy communication builds strong relationships and communities.
A. Still, look for the points you agree on.
B. Start by asking if you can share your opinion.
C. If this happens to you, you'd better say sorry to your friends.
D. Avoid using impolite adjectives, like "stupid" "foolish" or "silly".
E. You can start by saying, "OK. I understand you. You are saying..."
F. Sometimes you may disagree with your friends about more serious subjects.
生活中我们难免与亲友产生分歧,比如选择游戏或餐厅。我们应该学会倾听、保持礼貌、聚焦事实、寻找共同点,这样才能让沟通更有效、关系更牢固。
Talk to people you disagree with
Everyone sometimes has disagreements with friends or family members. For example, you might not agree about what game to play, which restaurant makes the best pizza. 1. Disagreements are uncomfortable. There are some steps you can take to make the conversation meaningful. Here is how.
See their attitudes(态度)
Even if you disagree with someone, you can still listen to what they say. Let them know that you're paying attention to them by listening carefully with interest. Another way to show that you're listening is by asking questions or repeating what they said. 2.
Use polite language
When someone has an opinion you don't agree with, don't pay too much attention to it. 3. ______ Instead, focus on speaking calmly(沉着地). For example, you may begin with "I feel" or "I see this in another way".
Stick to(坚持) the facts
If you have a strong opinion, it's better to stick to the facts instead of feelings. 4. Then relax your shoulders and speak in a calm voice. If you are stopped by some person, you can remind the person that it's your turn to speak. Then give him another chance to speak later.
Find common ground
It's hard to change one's mind. 5. You may also get a better understanding of each other's opinion. In the end, it's worth the effort because healthy communication builds strong relationships and communities.
A. Still, look for the points you agree on.
B. Start by asking if you can share your opinion.
C. If this happens to you, you'd better say sorry to your friends.
D. Avoid using impolite adjectives, like "stupid" "foolish" or "silly".
E. You can start by saying, "OK. I understand you. You are saying..."
F. Sometimes you may disagree with your friends about more serious subjects.
答案
Ⅴ. [文章大意]本文主要介绍了如何与意见不合的人进行有效沟通。
1. F [解析]根据"Everyone sometimes has disagreements with friends or family members. For example, you might not agree about what game to play, which restaurant makes the best pizza."可知,每个人有时都会与朋友或家人产生分歧,并举例说明了人们在一些小事上可能会有分歧,接下来应进一步说明人们有时在一些更严肃的话题上也可能会有分歧。选项F"有时你可能会在更严肃的话题上与朋友产生分歧"符合语境。故选F。
2. E [解析]根据"Even if you disagree with someone, you can still listen to what they say. Let them know that you're paying attention to them by listening carefully with interest. Another way to show that you're listening is by asking questions or repeating what they said."可知,要通过一些方式来表明你在听对方说话,如提问或重复他们的话。选项E"你可以说,'好的,我理解你了。你是说……'"符合语境。故选E。
3. D [解析]根据"When someone has an opinion you don't agree with, don't pay too much attention to it."以及"Instead, focus on speaking calmly(沉着地)."可知,当别人的观点与你不一致时,不要过于关注它,而是要冷静地表达自己的观点,同时要避免使用不礼貌的语言。选项D"避免使用不礼貌的形容词,如‘愚蠢的’‘傻的’或‘笨的’"符合语境。故选D。
4. B [解析]根据"If you have a strong opinion, it's better to stick to the facts instead of feelings."以及"Then relax your shoulders and speak in a calm voice."可知,如果你有不可动摇的观点时,坚持事实而不是感受比较好,并且要以冷静的语气表达自己的观点,在表达之前可以先询问你是否可以分享你的观点。选项B"首先询问是否可以分享你的观点"符合语境。故选B。
5. A [解析]根据"It's hard to change one's mind."以及"You may also get a better understanding of each other's opinion."可知,当你发现无法改变对方的观点,对方也可能无法改变你的观点时,应该寻找共同点。选项A"不过,还是要寻找你们达成一致的点"符合语境。故选A。
1. F [解析]根据"Everyone sometimes has disagreements with friends or family members. For example, you might not agree about what game to play, which restaurant makes the best pizza."可知,每个人有时都会与朋友或家人产生分歧,并举例说明了人们在一些小事上可能会有分歧,接下来应进一步说明人们有时在一些更严肃的话题上也可能会有分歧。选项F"有时你可能会在更严肃的话题上与朋友产生分歧"符合语境。故选F。
2. E [解析]根据"Even if you disagree with someone, you can still listen to what they say. Let them know that you're paying attention to them by listening carefully with interest. Another way to show that you're listening is by asking questions or repeating what they said."可知,要通过一些方式来表明你在听对方说话,如提问或重复他们的话。选项E"你可以说,'好的,我理解你了。你是说……'"符合语境。故选E。
3. D [解析]根据"When someone has an opinion you don't agree with, don't pay too much attention to it."以及"Instead, focus on speaking calmly(沉着地)."可知,当别人的观点与你不一致时,不要过于关注它,而是要冷静地表达自己的观点,同时要避免使用不礼貌的语言。选项D"避免使用不礼貌的形容词,如‘愚蠢的’‘傻的’或‘笨的’"符合语境。故选D。
4. B [解析]根据"If you have a strong opinion, it's better to stick to the facts instead of feelings."以及"Then relax your shoulders and speak in a calm voice."可知,如果你有不可动摇的观点时,坚持事实而不是感受比较好,并且要以冷静的语气表达自己的观点,在表达之前可以先询问你是否可以分享你的观点。选项B"首先询问是否可以分享你的观点"符合语境。故选B。
5. A [解析]根据"It's hard to change one's mind."以及"You may also get a better understanding of each other's opinion."可知,当你发现无法改变对方的观点,对方也可能无法改变你的观点时,应该寻找共同点。选项A"不过,还是要寻找你们达成一致的点"符合语境。故选A。
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