(一) Social skills are important to successful careers( 事业) and personal relationships. _1 Learn how to improve your social skills and be more comfortable in the outside environment. Here is some advice for you.
Pay attention to your own means of communication with other people. Find out which behavior patterns( 行为模式) and situations make you uncomfortable. Ask others for honest answers about your means of communication. _2 Think about how you can change your own behavior and turn it into a positive experience.
3 When you communicate with other people, use eye contact, face the person you're speaking to and avoid being inattentive( 漫不经心的). At times body language is more important than the words you speak. Listen carefully. 4 Try to respect others and do not interrupt others’ words. It’s polite to listen to their complete words and then respond( 回应).
Change yourself little by little. To improve your personality at once is impossible. _5 Ask your friends and family about your positive qualities, and let them shine while communicating with others. At the same time,let them point out what you need to improve. Then make yourself get better and better day by day.
A.Listen to what others are saying.
B.In this way,you can know where you have made mistakes.
C.Use positive body language.
D.Losing confidence can prevent us from being the sociable( 善于交际的) type.
E.Luckily,social skills can be improved.
F.Try to change one or two bad patterns of behavior at a time.
1.
4.
Pay attention to your own means of communication with other people. Find out which behavior patterns( 行为模式) and situations make you uncomfortable. Ask others for honest answers about your means of communication. _2 Think about how you can change your own behavior and turn it into a positive experience.
3 When you communicate with other people, use eye contact, face the person you're speaking to and avoid being inattentive( 漫不经心的). At times body language is more important than the words you speak. Listen carefully. 4 Try to respect others and do not interrupt others’ words. It’s polite to listen to their complete words and then respond( 回应).
Change yourself little by little. To improve your personality at once is impossible. _5 Ask your friends and family about your positive qualities, and let them shine while communicating with others. At the same time,let them point out what you need to improve. Then make yourself get better and better day by day.
A.Listen to what others are saying.
B.In this way,you can know where you have made mistakes.
C.Use positive body language.
D.Losing confidence can prevent us from being the sociable( 善于交际的) type.
E.Luckily,social skills can be improved.
F.Try to change one or two bad patterns of behavior at a time.
1.
E
2.B
3.C
4.
A
5.F
答案
EBCAF
解析
1.前句讲社交技能重要性,后句讲学习提高社交技能,E项“Luckily,social skills can be improved.”承上启下,说明技能可提升,引出下文建议。2.前句建议向他人询问沟通方式的诚实回答,B项“In this way,you can know where you have made mistakes.”中“this way”指代询问他人,说明询问后的结果。3.后句围绕交流时的眼神交流、肢体语言展开,C项“Use positive body language.”作为段落主题句,概括肢体语言内容。4.前句为“Listen carefully.”,A项“Listen to what others are saying.”具体说明听的内容,与后句“不打断他人”衔接。5.前句讲“一点点改变自己,不可能立刻改善”,F项“Try to change one or two bad patterns of behavior at a time.”呼应“little by little”,建议一次改变少量不良行为。
翻译:
(一)社交技能对事业的成功和人际关系都很重要。幸运的是,社交技能是可以提高的。学习如何提高你的社交技能,在外部环境中更自在。这里有一些给你的建议。
关注你自己与他人的交流方式。找出哪些行为模式和情境会让你感到不舒服。向他人询问关于你交流方式的真实反馈。通过这种方式,你就能知道自己哪里犯错了。思考一下你如何能改变自己的行为,并将其转化为一次积极的经历。
使用积极的肢体语言。当你和别人交流时,要有眼神交流,面对和你说话的人,避免漫不经心。有时肢体语言比你说的话更重要。
认真倾听。倾听别人在说什么。尽量尊重他人,不要打断别人的话。听完他们的完整话语然后再回应是很有礼貌的。
一点一点地改变自己。一下子改善你的性格是不可能的。一次尝试改变一两种不好的行为模式。问问你的朋友和家人你的优点,在和别人交流时让这些优点展现出来。同时,让他们指出你需要改进的地方。然后让自己一天比一天更好。
翻译:
(一)社交技能对事业的成功和人际关系都很重要。幸运的是,社交技能是可以提高的。学习如何提高你的社交技能,在外部环境中更自在。这里有一些给你的建议。
关注你自己与他人的交流方式。找出哪些行为模式和情境会让你感到不舒服。向他人询问关于你交流方式的真实反馈。通过这种方式,你就能知道自己哪里犯错了。思考一下你如何能改变自己的行为,并将其转化为一次积极的经历。
使用积极的肢体语言。当你和别人交流时,要有眼神交流,面对和你说话的人,避免漫不经心。有时肢体语言比你说的话更重要。
认真倾听。倾听别人在说什么。尽量尊重他人,不要打断别人的话。听完他们的完整话语然后再回应是很有礼貌的。
一点一点地改变自己。一下子改善你的性格是不可能的。一次尝试改变一两种不好的行为模式。问问你的朋友和家人你的优点,在和别人交流时让这些优点展现出来。同时,让他们指出你需要改进的地方。然后让自己一天比一天更好。
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